When parents don’t agree about aspects of their parenting arrangement such as who should be looking after their child, the local legal system may get involved. Research has found that it is in the best interests of the child to avoid going to court when parents disagree. Parents are often encouraged to sort out disputes using alternative dispute resolutions such as family mediation. However, there are some cases where this will not be enough to resolve the disagreement. Find out about the relevant legislation that might be used in these cases.
The Children (Scotland) Bill is currently being considered by the Justice Committee of the Scottish Parliament.
Under the Children (Scotland) Act 1995, a parent typically (see below) has Parental Responsibilities and Rights (PRRs):
Parental responsibilities are things that parents are expected to do while their children grow up. Including helping them to be healthy and encouraging their growth, development and welfare.
Parental Rights are things parents are allowed to do in order to carry out their responsibilities, they are expected to use these rights to do things that are best for their children.
A mother is given PRRs automatically while a father will be given PRRs automatically only if they are married to the mother.
Following changes made in the Family Law (Scotland) Act 2006, if a child’s father is not married to the mother, they can automatically be given PRRs if they register the child’s birth together i.e the father’s name appears on the child’s birth certificate.
A father can also get PRRs by:
Other people can also ask the court for PRRs, for example step-parents, grandparents, aunts or uncles.
When deciding whether to give someone PRRs the court will always be thinking about what is best for the child, not what is best for the adult who has asked for the PRRs.
If agreement can’t be reached on key issues such as where the child stays, who has contact and matters such as education. religious observance and healthcare, the matter can be raised in court. Typically three things are taken into account in court to make decisions in these cases using the Children (Scotland) Act 1995:
When all else is equal, the law aims to support the continued involvement of both parents in a child’s life.
The court will give the child the opportunity to express their view and will take that into account when making a decision.
The law says that young people over 12 can be old enough to have views about and begin to take responsibility for things that affect them.However, children under 12 should still be listened to.
Many countries have considered or have begun implementing shared parenting legislation.
Hover over the map to find out what the law says in Australia, Belgium, France, New Zealand, Sweden and The USA. Click on a country for more information. This section will be updated as we gather more information.